To my baby,
As you embark on your life’s journey, remember you are great. You are a divine piece of a greater whole. You have a purpose. You have a voice. You have choices. You have emotions. You have metaphoric wings to soar and fly to your dreams and ambitions. Don’t let anyone stand in your way.
Don’t ever let anyone squash your voice or opinions. Don’t feel the need to be muted or scared to say what’s on your mind. Speak out gently but be assertive. Stand your ground and know what’s right and wrong. Don’t be afraid, ashamed or embarrassed to stand up for what you feel is right. You need to hear your inner voice. Mute all the noise outside and listen, internalise and act. Be you. Let your essence shine.
There’s a plethora of manipulation, negative influences, peer pressure and competitiveness in the big world. But always remember who you are and your strength. Always have integrity and honesty. Be open and respectful. If you’re hurt or sad, say why. Do not bottle things up. Express yourself. Use your words. It’s your life, remember, nobody else’s.
None of us are the same, none of us have the same DNA or fingerprints. Same too with our personalities, likes and dislikes. We all have differences which make us unique. Learn who you are and what you stand for. Don’t be someone else or what others want you to be. You are you. This is your life. We only have one chance. Make it count.
It’s easy for others to sway you in one way or another. It’s easy when you’re unsure or sitting on the fence to be manipulated. Think about your options, what’s best for yourself. And if it makes sense, then great. Understand that you won’t disappoint yourself by sticking to your guns, you may disappoint someone else by not always complying with what they want. It’s your life. Your one chance.
You are special my baby bear. You count. You are worthy and worthwhile. You fit in where you need to be. You strive for what matters for you. You have choices and options, go forth and conquer.
Love you always the way you are….
Mama xxxx